Helicopter No More: Be Present without Hovering
August 28, 2018
Let children set their own goals and timelines. Ask: “What do you want to accomplish today/this week?” Guide them in an age-appropriate way.
- Ask open-ended questions. “What’s going on tonight with your homework?” not “Do you have homework?”
- Have conversations that aren’t face-to-face, such as in the car or while preparing dinner.
- Pause to hear what kids say. Sometimes small comments signal a larger truth. “I’m tired of this” can mean more than routine weariness.
- Embrace disappointment as a character-building experience. “Sometimes we have to fall down gracefully and figure out how to get back up,” said Karen Williams, LIMHP, CHI Health mental health therapist.
- Give kids time to just be. “We are human beings, not human doings,” Williams said.
More from this issue:
- Pressure Doesn’t Make Perfect: Beware Sky-High Expectations
- Rude, Mean or Worse? Always Take the Kind Road
- Helicopter No More: Be Present without Hovering
- Mood Swings, Aggression, Depression – It’s Not a Phase
- Set Limits for Strong Kids
- Under Your Influence: Parents Play Vital Role in Kids’ Alcohol, Drug Use
- Vaping and Juuling: A Trend on Fire
- Building Kids Up: The Parents' Role
- When Those Facebook Friends Aren’t Your Friends After All
- Cutting: An Explainer
- Why Doesn’t Anyone Like Me?
- Teen Suicide: An Alarming Trend
- Trophy-Free Self-Esteem: Get It with Grit
- Empower Your Kids to Handle Peer Pressure
- Simple Ways to Break the Silence – Conversation Starters
- Mental Illness: 10 Warning Signs
- Break Free: Releasing Anxiety's Grip
May 20, 2019 - It’s a 4-peat! CHI Health St. Elizabeth has received Magnet® designation status from the American Nurses Credentialing Center (ANCC).
May 15, 2019 - Run Baby Run event rallies support for NICU babies and families at CHI Health St. Elizabeth.
May 13, 2019 - CHI Health St. Francis named Carolyn Davis and Gerri Williams as the 2018 Volunteers of the Year.
May 07, 2019 - Biking causes many injuries and emergency room visits for children. CHI Health St. Francis is teaching bike safety skills.
April 30, 2019 - This patient credits a cell phone - and the CHI Health trauma team - with saving his life.